Friday, June 12, 2009

An Evening

A dark gloomy scene
fills my window pane
I slided my curtains,
water drops were limping on them
suggesting rain

from the west
flashes burst lighting
the sky night versus dawn
seconds pass rumbling
oh so far away..
someone else is also sensing in the same way..

As i watch the rain drops
falling drop by drop
in a linear manner
It reminds me of someone
who is waiting in darkness

to fulfill the dreams tat
she nurtures every day

to fulfill the happiness
tat is embedded in every tear drops
tat falls on her lap....
Wish those pain in tears
will get washed in next rain

Bang came the pat frm colleague
wat r u doing,
I said nothing Just
watching my soul getting
drenched ........

Now bk to wrk:))

Monday, June 8, 2009

Being teenager

Morning bliss always give u enthusiasm to start your day with new thoughts , to achieve new heights.The newspaper headline read 08/08/08. It made me nostalgic, I went back to my old memories when exactly 14 years back on 8 AUgust 1994,one small incident changed my whole school life.

The incident was not tat shattering or amazing but it changed my outlook towards life and friendship.There was this new girl who got admission in my school. I was parking my bicycle in the cycle stand,saw a girl with big oval eyes, two ponies,a dangling smile and suave looks which made me encompassed for that moment.SHe smirked or giggled at me and left with her friend .

I prayed to god that wish she gets admission in my section.MY wishes or my intution seldom goes wrong, As someone has said( jis cheez ko tum dil se chaho to poorie kayanat use poorie karne ki koshish karti hain). AT EOD i was passing by my PRIncy office and heard that she is admitted in my section. OH i felt so happy and was on top of world, for the whole day i kept smiling and dreaming.The smile was steadily and slowly started showing its be continued

Monday, June 1, 2009

Art of flattering

Flattering is an art which a person tries right from childhood till he is alive,( i dont know what happens after the death, might be man does this to flatter angels out there;) ,, who knows).

Some says it will lead to nowhere..But i think otherwise...For e.g. if some one says "You are too kind" The first Impression it gaves is of a polite behaviour which the person tends to show as a part of social behaviour.(unless he is grinning and speaking:)..

Flattery, of course, has had a bad name since the origin of word itself , implying wrongful praise. Nothing is more flattering than to be told that you hate flattery.

For the most part, flattery is harmless: surrounding the flattered with a halo of good feeling, it gives away nothing really worth having, but it may get a lot in return. Yes u r right it gives u a lot in return.

Well some one says in the narrowest sense Flattery is extravagantly exaggerating the value of something in order to persuade. However in its broadest definition, flattery is a form of bowing and scraping, social behavior for which words are not necessary .Flattery is the defensive weapon with which inferiors placate superiors, thereby avoid being killed, optimize their relationships and achieve a sort of ''devious cooperation''

''We have all learned to nod and smile and hold our tongue and murmur approval and say thank you.''

Saying thank you is an implicit form of flattery in that it indicates your dependence on some other person's grace. But so is keeping quiet. Silence may often be a form of elliptical flattery -- saying less than what might be said, as when you minimize someone's faults and failings, or pointedly ignore some glaring deformity.

As Casanova taught, you always tell beauty it's intelligent, and intelligence that it's beautiful. Similarly, the most successful flatterers are not vulgarly hypocritical but rather those who believe their own lies. If I am aware I'm flattering, my self-knowledge playing across my face may well be detected by an observant person on the sheer inhibiton of empty praise. If, however, I've convinced myself of my deception, my palaver will more convincingly persuade.

Indeed, the purest flattery -- the sort most surely liable to work -- occurs when neither the flattered nor the flatterer knows it is going on. :)And its quite a fun,,,,

Who among us doesn't need to think some more these days about the science of kissing up or about being flattered up?

So PPL open up ur buttering machine and get ready to flatter,,, Beware there may be persons who are ready with Bread to soak up ur butter....

Keep Buttering.. :)